Seriously tak sabar nak share sebenarnya ni part of
what am doing lately untuk “RefresH” otak
dan focus serta “Pulihkan” apa yg tak pulih
[ceh..ngada] hahaha ^hey
am laughing again^ tapi not because of this book
ok.. sebab Allah yang mengizinkan ianya berlaku…
So
ni adalah antara yg membantu dan Sangat bagus untuk semua Kaum HAWA untuk
ambil tahu…
Jom Check serba sikit Apa yg boleh dihuraikan dari
buku ni kalau rasa PERLU tolong
AMBIL,
kalau rasa TAK PERLU
tolong ABAIKAN
and jangan provoke saya
ini pandangan masing2 ok…
100 Prinsip Tarikan, dari “WhY Man Love Bitches” Sedia..? ~anguk kepala~ hehehe
JOMMMMM…!!!!!
Salah satu buku terbaik pada pandangan saya dari apa
yang saya pernah baca sebelum ini "Why Man Love Bitches" [WHYyyy..?] Oh no..no..!!!
^kalau di translate BITCHES maksudnya ialah
<BETINA/JALANG>^ Ia merujuk kepada wanita yang suka menganggu
hubungan percintaan / perkahwinan orang .Exactly this is the first come across
my mind sebelum saya baca, dan saya yakin saya sangat nak tahu KENAPA..? AKAN
TETAPI buku ni tak merujuk kepada itu…
Ia adalah cerita tentang wanita yang
mempunyai nilai yang cukup tinggi dan
rasa hormat terhadap diri mereka sendiri, Dan untuk ANDA tidak jatuh ke dalam
perangkap pasangan mereka.
####So It will definitely helps you realize why all of your RelationSHIPS
seem to be RelationSHIT.####
So
Saya cuba gambarkan 100 prinsip tarikan dari buku nie
^“WhY Man Love Bitches”^
[prinsip
ini juga adalah inspirasa dari pelbagai sudut bacaan dan pandangan orang yang
pernah membaca’Credit GOOGLE]
Because
this book in English,so kalau di Translate akan lain pula maksudnya..kita sama2
faham lah ye hehehe
[^mcm la aku faham sgt^ we Try Ok]
SO kita ENJOY..!!!!!!!!!!!
1. Anything a
person chases in life runs away.
2. The women
who have the men climbing the walls for them aren't always exceptional. Often,
they are the ones who don’t appear to care too much.
3. A woman is
perceived as offering a mental challenge to the degree that a man doesn't feel
he has a 100 percent hold on her.
4. Sometimes a
man deliberately won’t call, just to see how you’ll respond.
5. If you
start out dependent, it turns him off. But if it is something he can’t have, it
becomes more of a challenge for him to get it.
6. It is your
attitude about yourself that a man will adopt.
7. Act like a prize and you’ll turn him into a
believer.
8. The biggest
variable between a bitch and a woman who is too nice is fear. The bitch shows
that she’s not afraid to be without him.
9. If the
choice is between her dignity and having a relationship, the bitch will
prioritize her dignity above all else.
10. When a
woman doesn't give in easily and doesn't appear docile or submissive, it
becomes more stimulating to obtain her.
11. Being right on the verge of getting something
generates a desire that has to be satisfied.
12. A man
knows which woman will give in to last-minute requests.
13. Whether
you have terms and conditions indicates whether you have options. Almost
immediately, you present yourself as a doormat or a dream girl.
14. If you
smother him, he’ll go into defence mode and look for an escape route to protect
his freedom.
15. Whenever a
woman requires too many things from a man, he’ll resent it. Let him give what
he wants to give freely; then observe who he is.
16. A bitch
gives a man plenty of space so he doesn't fear being trapped in a cage.
Then..he sets out to trap her in his.
17. If you
tell him you are not interested in jumping into a relationship with both feet,
he will set out to try to change your mind.
18. Always
give the appearance that he has plenty of space. It gets him to drop his guard.
19. More than
anything else, he watches to see if you’ll be too emotionally dependent on him.
20. He must
feel that you choose to be with him, not that you need to be with him. Only
then will he perceive you as an equal partner.
21. If a man
has to wait before he sleeps with a woman, he’ll not only perceive her as more
beautiful, he’ll also take him time to appreciate who she is.
22. Sex and
the “spark” are not one and the same.
23. Before
sex, a man isn't thinking clearly and a woman is thinking clearly. After sex,
it reverses. The man is thinking clearly and the woman isn't.
24. Every man
wants to have sex first; whether he wants a girlfriend is something he thinks
about later. By not giving him what he wants up front, you become his
girlfriend without him realizing it.
25. A man
intuitively senses whether sexuality comes from a place of security or from a
place of neediness. He knows when a woman is having sex to appease him.
26. Bad habits
are easier to form than good ones, because good habits require conscious
effort. Waiting encourages this effort.
27. If you
pull the sexual plug at the last minute, he’ll label you a tease.
28. If he
makes you feel insecure, let your insecurity be your guide.
29. A quality
guy fantasizes about a woman who genuinely loves sex.
30. Any time a
woman competes with another woman, she demeans herself.
31. When there
is that undeniable “spark,” there is only one key to the lock.
32. Let him
think he’s in control. He’ll automatically start doing things you want done
because he’ll always want to look like “a king” in your eyes.
33. When you
cater to his ego in a soft way, he doesn't try to get power in an aggressive
way.
34. When you
appear softer and more feminine, you appeal to his instinct to protect. When
you appear more aggressive, you appeal to his instinct to compete.
35. He’ll let
a woman who becomes his doormat pay for dinner on the first couple of dates,
but he wouldn't think of it with his dream girl.
36. The token
power position is for public display, but the true power position is for
private viewing only. And this is the only one that matters.
37. If you
give him a feeling of power, he’ll want to protect you and he’ll want to give
you the world.
38. When a
woman acts as though she’s capable of everything, she gets stuck doing
everything.
39. Men don’t
respond to words. They respond to no contact.
40. Talking
about the “relationship” too much takes away the element of the “unknown” and
thus the mystery.
41. Men respect
women who communicate in a succinct way, because it’s the language men use to
talk to one another.
42. When you
are always HAPPY; And he is always free to GO; he feels LUCKY.
43. If you
allow your rhythm to be interrupted, you’ll create a void. Then, to replace
what you give up, you’ll start to expect and need more from your partner.
44. Most women
are starving to receive something from a man that they need to give to
themselves.
45. A woman
looks more secure in a man’s eyes when he can’t pull her away from her life,
because she is content with her life.
46. The second
a woman works overtime to make herself fit his criteria, she has lowered the
standard of that relationship.
47. You jump
through hoops any time you repeatedly make it very obvious you’re giving your
“all.”
48. You have
to keep from being sucked down into quicksand. Unless you maintain control over
yourself, the relationship is doomed.
49. Jumping
through hoops often has a negative outcome: He sees it as an opportunity to
have his cake and eat it, too. But when you stay just outside his reach, he’ll
stay on his best behaviour.
50. The nice
girl gives away too much of herself when pleasing him regularly becomes more
important than pleasing herself.
51. The
relationship may not be right for you if you find yourself jumping through
hoops. When something is right, it will feel easier and much more effortless.
52. When you
nag, he tunes you out. But when you speak with your actions, he pays attention.
53. When a man
takes a woman for granted, he still looks for reassurance that she is still
“right there.”
54. When the
routine becomes predictable, he’s more likely to give you the same type of love
he had for his mother–and the odds that he will take you for granted increase.
55. Negative
attention is still attention. It lets a man know that he has you–right where he
wants you.
56. When you
treat him casually as though he’s a friend, he’ll come your way. Because he
wants things to be romantic, but he also wants to be the pursuer.
57. A little
distance combined with the appearance of self-control makes him nervous that he
may be losing you.
58. A man
takes a woman for granted when he’s interested, but will no longer go out of
his way.
59. When you
nag, you become the problem, and he deals with it by tuning you out. But when
you don’t nag, he deals with the problem.
60. If you
take his chores away from him and praise someone else for doing it, he’ll want
his chores back.
61. When you
nag, he sees weakness.
62. He
perceives an emotional woman as more of a pushover.
63. In the
same way that familiarity breeds contempt, a slightly aloof demeanour can often
renew his respect.
64. He’ll
forget what he has in you, unless you remind him.
65. Many women
talk a lot out of nervousness–which is something that men will often perceive
as insecurity.
66. Talking
about feelings to a man will feel like work. When he’s with a woman, he wants
it to feel like fun.
67. Forcing
him to talk about feelings all the time will not only make you seem needy, it
will eventually make him lose respect. And when he loses respect, he’ll pay
even less attention to your feelings.
68. In the
beginning, the only thing you need to pay attention to is whether he keeps
coming around, because he’ll only be able to suspend or hide his emotions for
so long.
69. Men treat
women the way they treat other men. They “play it cool: because they don’t want
to appear weak or desperate.
70. The element
of surprise both inside and outside of the bedroom is important to men, and it
adds to the excitement.
71. Don’t
always do the same thing over and over in the bedroom. Vary it so that it doesn't become a predictable routine.
72. Most men
tend to disrespect a woman who appears to be too malleable.
73. Don’t be
afraid to stand up for yourself or speak your mind. It will not only earn his
respect, in some cases it will even turn him on.
74. Men often
automatically assume that a bitchier woman will be more assertive in bed, and
that a nice girl will be more timid.
75. When a man
falls in love, suddenly he’ll go out of his way and think nothing of it. He’ll
do things for this woman he wouldn't have done for anyone else.
76. He’ll
never respect you as being able to hold your own unless you can stand on your
own too feet financially.
77. You have
to show that you won’t accept mistreatment. Then you will keep his respect.
78. Your pink
slip is maintained when you can stand on your own–with him or without him. He
should never feel that you are completely as his mercy.
79. When a man
views a woman as a “little girl” or a sister he has to take care of, the
passion diminishes. He doesn't want to make love to his sister.
80. The
ability to choose how you want to live, and the ability to choose how you want
to be treated are the two things that give you more power than any material
object ever will.
81. In a
relationship of any kind, if one person feels the other person isn't bringing
anything to the table, he or she will begin to disrespect that person.
82. Financial
neediness is no different than emotional neediness; in both instances, he can
still get the feeling that he has a 100 percent hold on you.
83. Regardless
of how pretty a woman is, looks alone will not sustain his respect. Appearance
may pull him in, but it is your independence that will keep him turned on.
84. When a man
is very consumed with not being taken advantage of, this is a sign that he’s
“on the take.”
85. People
will show you they have self-respect simply by virtue of the fact that they
want to carry their own weight.
86. The more
independent you are of him, the more interested he will be.
87. If you
make it too obvious that you’re excited to get something, some people will be
tempted to dangle a carrot in front of your face.
88. When you
alter the routine, your not being there is what will make him come around. Men
don’t respond to words. What they respond to is no contact.
89. Don’t give
a reward for bad behaviour.
90. He simply
won’t respect a woman who automatically goes into overdrive to please him.
91. If he doesn't give you a time, you don’t have a date.
92. Often the
best way to adjust or fix the problem is by not letting him know it’s being
fixed. When you alter your availability or change a predictable routine, it
will mentally pull him back in.
93. Once you
start laughing, you start healing.
94. You can
get away with saying much more with humour than you can with a straight face.
95. A man
feels he’s won, or conquered a woman, when she eats out of the palm of his hand.
At which point, he begins to get bored.
96. The
tension that arises with a slightly bitchy woman gives a subtle feeling of
danger to a man. He feels slightly unsure because she is never in the palm of
his hand.
97. A “yes”
woman who gives too much sends the impression that she believes in the man more
than she believes in herself. Men view this as weakness not kindness.
98. Be an
independent thinker at all times, and ignore anyone who attempts to define you
in a limiting way.
99. Truly
powerful people don’t explain why they want respect. They simply don’t engage
someone who doesn't give it to them.
100. The most
attractive quality of all is dignity.
SO HOW….???? Comment nanti ok…
p/s:
Buku ni ada sambungan dia
^“WhY Man MARRY Bitches”^
Dalam process membaca so nanti dah
habis I will share
FOR SURE..
